Childhood Cancer

Your Child in the Hospital

Read books together

Many children enjoy reading age-appropriate books with their parents about going to the hospital. Books offer factual information that may clear up any misconceptions or fears your child has about what happens at the hospital. Reading together also allows time for your child to ask you questions and perhaps share some worries.

You can find helpful books at your local bookstore or in a hospital library. Bookstores often have a children’s book expert who knows what’s available for each age group. The hospital librarian, social worker, counselor, or child life specialist may also have recommendations. Many suggestions are listed in the Resources section at the end of this book.

Before my 4-year-old son went to the hospital, we bought a book written by Mr. Rogers, called Going to the Hospital. It showed children and their families in the hospital, during admission, having x-rays, in bed. It was very reassuring and informative. Reading books allowed his fears and concerns to surface. He asked questions he might not have asked if we hadn’t cuddled up on the couch and read the book together.

Older children and teens might look online for information about their illness, treatment, or upcoming procedures. Information online can range from helpful to wildly inaccurate. Mention this to your child and let him know that if he finds something concerning in his research that it’s worth discussing with his doctor.