Your Child in the Hospital
Chapter 13: Siblings
“Sometimes being a brother is even better than being a superhero.”
A CHILD’S HOSPITALIZATION TOUCHES all members of the family, especially siblings. Even a short-term hospital stay can disrupt a sibling’s sense of security and routine. An illness or injury in the family can create an array of conflicting emotions in siblings. They worry about their ill brother or sister yet might resent the turmoil in their family. They may feel jealous if gifts and attention are showered on the sick child and then feel guilty for having these emotions.
Many problems can be prevented by preparing siblings just like you do the child who will be hospitalized. Reading books together and taking them on the hospital tour will help give them a better understanding of why their brother or sister needs to go to the hospital. These activities also can spur discussion and give you a chance to clear up any misconceptions or worries your healthy children have.
Table of Contents
All Guides- Introduction
- 1. Before You Go
- 2. The Emergency Room
- 3. Preparing Your Child
- 4. The Facilities
- 5. The Staff
- 6. Communicating with Doctors
- 7. Common Procedures
- 8. Surgery
- 9. Pain Management
- 10. Family and Friends. What to Say
- 11. Family and Friends. How to Help
- 12. Feelings and Behavior
- 13. Siblings
- 14. Long-Term Illness or Injury
- 15. School
- 16. Medical and Financial Records
- 17. Insurance
- 18. Sources of Financial Help
- 19. Looking Back
- My Hospital Journal
- Packing List
- Resources
- Contributors
- About the Author