Many parents express anguish when their child’s doses or schedules for chemotherapy change during treatment. It is very common for doses to be lowered or treatment to be delayed while a child recovers from low blood counts, infection, or toxic reactions to the treatment. In fact, almost every child has dose reduction(s) or delays in treatment. The protocol is a guideline that will be modified, depending on your child’s response to treatment.

When we were struggling with the decision of whether to join the study, I asked the oncologist how would we ever know if we made the right decision. He said something very wise. “You will never know and you should never second guess yourself, no matter how the study turns out. Statistics are about large groups of kids, not your child. Your child might respond no matter which arm she is on or she might show no benefit from a treatment arm where most other kids do well. Statistics for you will be either 100 percent or 0 because your child will either live or die. I can’t tell you which will be the better treatment, that is why we are conducting the study. But no matter what, we will be doing absolutely the best we can.”